This idea comes from the book Family Home Evening for Newlyweds by Deborah Pace Rowley
Topic: Being the Perfect Spouse
Objective: Through the reading of one anothers Patriarchal Blessings discover how you can be the perfect spouse.
Read your patriarchal blessings to each other. Then discuss the statement: Never ask the question, did I marry the right one? Once you have been sealed you have married the perfect one--not because that person is perfect but because you yourself are determined to be the perfect companion. Your spouse will be as perfect as you are or as perfect as you allow him/her to be and encourage him/her to be.
Finally answer this question: How can we help each other achieve the promises in our patriarchal blessings?